Review

From the reviews: "This is a scholarly work, both in terms of operationalized research into relationships as well as its major understandings of the human state of relatedness which are difficult to measure or operationalize. The healing of couples and the complexity of intimate human relationships is definitely a challenge. This book is a fascinating, erudite, and most useful theoretical and practical book for any therapist who wants to understand relationships, priorities, models for commitment. It behoves us to really understand the conscious and unconscious interpersonal and intrapsychic relationships of clients." (Sandra E.S. Neil, Clinical and Family Psychologist, September 2010) "Through a thorough review of the research that digs deeply into the complexity of human interactions, L'Abate and his colleagues elucidate the concepts of relational competence...This book may become one of the authoritative sources for comprehensive research on social interaction. Luciano L'Abate, the senior author, proves his mettle as one of the hardest working and most productive researchers on human interaction. The references at the back of the book take at least 2 1/2 full pages to list his citations, revealing a man whose research covers the waterfront, from intimacy ("Intimacy is Sharing Hurt Feelings," 1977) through therapy (Beyond Psychotherapy, 2002) to play (The Praeger Handbook of Play across the Life Cycle, 2009)." (David Ryback, The Georgia Psychologist, September 2010) "...The authors have created a potentially powerful model for understanding relationship competence, and one that deserves wide attention and serious consideration." (James P. Schmidt, PsycCRITIQUES Contemporary Psychology: APA Review of Books, January 2011)

From the Back Cover

Relational competence—the set of traits that allow people to interact with each other effectively—enjoys a long history of being recorded, studied, and analyzed. Accordingly, Relational Competence Theory (RCT) complements theories that treat individuals’ personality and functioning individually by placing the individual into full family and social context. The ambitious volume Relational Competence Theory: Research and Mental Health Applications opens out the RCT literature with emphasis on its applicability to interventions, and updates the state of research on RCT, examining what is robust and verifiable both in the lab and the clinic. The authors begin with the conceptual and empirical bases for the theory, and sixteen models demonstrate the range of RCT concerns and their clinical relevance, including: - Socialization settings for relational competence. - The ability to control and regulate the self. - Relationship styles. - Intimacy and negotiation. - The use of practice exercises in prevention and treatment of pathology. - Appendices featuring the Relational Answers Questionnaire and other helpful tools. Relational Competence Theory both challenges and confirms much of what we know about the range of human relationships, and is important reading for researchers, scholars, and students in personality and social psychology, psychotherapy, and couple and family counseling.